Craving Deeper Connection?

More honesty. More desire. Less walking on eggshells.

Build intimacy that feels safe, authentic, and real — without shame, performance, or people-pleasing.

This complimentary session helps us see if we’re a fit for coaching.

Does This Sound Familiar?

  • You feel disconnected from your partner — or from yourself.

  • Conversations about intimacy feel heavy, awkward, or go nowhere.

  • Desire feels mismatched, performative, or gone missing.

  • You long for intimacy that feels alive again, but don’t know where to start.

"You’re not broken — you’re becoming."

Jodi Dreher

This complimentary session helps us see if we're a fit for coaching.

What You Will Gain

  • Tools to improve communication, consent, and desire.

  • Language for needs and boundaries that actually land.

  • Confidence to own your erotic identity — however you define it.

  • A relationship with yourself and others that feels safe and exciting.

"“I feel awake for the first time."

Jennifer

This complimentary session helps us see if we're a fit for coaching.

How it works

1

Assessment

Together we clarify your patterns, fears, and desires.

2

Plan

We create a personalized path forward - boundaries, tools, and practices that fit you.

3

Momentum

You practice small, courageous steps, and I support you as they stick.

Assessment → Plan → Momentum

The Breakthrough Framework

  1. Comprehensive Assessment
    We start with a deep dive into your current challenges, relationship patterns, and unique desires. We uncover the core beliefs and fears that are currently blocking your intimacy.
  2. Personalized Breakthrough Plan
    Next, we design a clear, actionable roadmap tailored specifically to your needs, whether you are in a relationship or seeking deeper self-connection. This plan focuses on cultivating safety, honesty, and sustainable desire.
  3. Sustainable Momentum
    We work together to integrate your new tools, shifting your patterns from avoidance to joyful connection. This phase is all about building confidence, practicing vulnerability, and experiencing real-world results.

You will finally feel seen, heard, and deeply desired.

This framework draws from positive psychology, Acceptance & Commitment Principles, and sex-positive coaching models — so you’re not just talking, you’re building habits that last.

Is this for you?

  • ✅ You want deeper connection — with your partner or with yourself.

  • ✅ You value honesty, curiosity, and growth in your relationships.

  • ✅ You’re exploring what authentic intimacy means for you — whether that’s within monogamy, ENM, polyamory, or kink.

  • ✅ You’re ready for intimacy that feels embodied, real, and shame-free.

  • ❌ You’re looking for medical or therapeutic treatment.

  • ❌ You’re not ready to take action.

Every person’s version of intimacy looks a little different. What matters most is that it feels real, aligned, and alive — for you.

Why Breakthrough Coaching Works

  • 20+ years guiding leaders, couples, and individuals through real change — from boardrooms to bedrooms, I help people create clarity and confidence that lasts.

  • Experience across communities and relationship styles. Whether monogamous, curious about ENM, or somewhere in between, I meet you where you are with respect and discretion.

  • Facilitator and mentor. I’ve led men’s groups, relationship symposiums, and open-dialogue workshops bringing solos and couples together to talk honestly about connection, trust, and desire.

  • Science-based, human-centered approach. My framework integrates positive psychology, Acceptance & Commitment Theory, and sex-positive coaching principles—so change feels structured, not vague.

  • Coaching with sex-positivity, emotional fluency, and fierce compassion.

“I finally understand what safety in connection actually feels like.”

Client

“We went from walking on eggshells to laughing together again.”

Client

Common Questions

Is this therapy?No — this is coaching. It’s forward-focused and practical. We’ll talk about what’s real for you right now and build tools you can use immediately.Do I have to be poly, kinky, or in an open relationship?Not at all. Coaching is inclusive of every relationship style — from traditional monogamy to more expansive dynamics. The goal is to help you create connection that feels aligned and authentic.What results can I expect?Clients report feeling clearer, calmer, and more connected — both to themselves and to others. You’ll leave each session with practical steps that move you toward lasting change.How much does it cost?Coaching is an investment in your growth. We’ll talk about pricing during your Breakthrough Call so we can find the right fit for your goals and budget. There’s no charge for that initial session.How long is the program?Every client path is customized. Some people work with me for a few focused sessions to spark clarity; others continue longer as they integrate new skills and habits.

Still have questions?

Apply anyway — we’ll talk it through together during your complimentary Breakthrough Call.

This complimentary session helps us see if we’re a fit for coaching.

With a passion for helping individuals like you unlock their full potential and achieve their goals, I'm here to guide you on a transformative journey towards personal growth and success.